My husband, who retired eight months ago, has become increasingly involved in his home, making it more like a company he has decided to manage. He has started announcing new "house rules" such as leaving early, coming home late and having strong opinions about everything. The rules include leaving shoes by the door, running the dishwasher only at night, and opening the mail immediately. This has led to a feeling of resentment and confusion. However, tell him that retirement may change his schedule but does not make him head of household operations.