Abigail Van Buren, formerly known as Jeanne Phillips, has been dealing with an alcoholic friend who regularly visits her rural home and causes her to become disorientated and potentially at risk of harming herself or others. She sent a message to her houseguest, stating that she feared she could harm herself while driving or possibly fall down my stairs, leading to a lawsuit. This behavior led to my husband's resignation and I have become the enemy. I have been advised to take action against this behavior. The National Alliance on Mental Illness can be a crucial source of support. Vanburen, who lost her husband of 38 years to cancer three years ago, is now engaged to fiancé, and has been asked to share her experiences with others who understand her situation.