Shinnai Visser, a 34-year-old mother-of-two, has sparked controversy online for her continued breastfeeding of her 4-year old daughter. Some have accused her of being inappropriate or creating too much dependence on her child. Vissher, who identifies herself as'mindful_mamma_za', claims her decision is based on research that challenged what she once thought was "normal" in Western culture. She explains that her perspective shifted when she learned about how breastfeeding is viewed differently in different cultures and that extended breastfeeding is not biologically unusual. She also highlights the benefits of extended breastfeeding for her 4 year-old daughter, who she sees as having a strong balance between attachment and independence.