Abby's husband, who recently welcomed a new baby, has left his wife for her girlfriend and has been cheating on her multiple times and has moved out of the house and wants a divorce. His wife's behavior is negatively affecting our other children, but his wife refuses to acknowledge its impact and refuses to attend counseling. This is a matter of concern that her behavior negatively impacts them and their other children. The solution to this is to talk with a licensed mental health professional about the possibility of postpartum depression or start interviewing lawyers who specialize in family law. While you can't force your wife to stay married to you, you can make sure your children spend as much time with their father as possible.