A woman has been married to her husband for 22 years, but lately she feels like he doesn't see her anymore. Her husband, who is known for his loyalty and commitment to his responsibilities, has been silent on these occasions. He does not notice when she is quiet, when she's hurt, or when she expresses dissatisfaction. She recently had her hair cut and styled differently, and recently spent an entire weekend repainting our bedroom and changing it around, hoping for him to notice the change. She feels more than being the person who keeps the house running, manages the calendar, remembers everyone's preferences, and fills in all the gaps. However, many spouses mistake steady love for finished work, and even the best marriages can go emotionally stale when one person becomes more like staff than a sweetheart.