Asking Eric about whether or not to include any mention of your donation in a card for a celebration should be included in the card. This is because many charitable organizations do not set up systems to notify someone when a donation is made in their name. This can be done by including a note about where the donation was made, which connects the honoree with your personal feelings for the honoringe. This also allows you to write a few sentences about the organization's mission and its connection to the honorene's life. Suggestions for a change could include limiting the amount of time people come, or asking for financial assistance.