Agedly diagnosed with advanced cancer several years ago, my lifelong best friend, who has two older children and a capable husband, was not present for me when I celebrated my victory. She replied that she couldn't make the time for it due to her responsibilities as a mom and doesn't work. This response was met with skepticism, suggesting there is some underlying resentment. The author suggests that the friendship may have been misinterpreted, but it's possible that she is overwhelmed by her responsibilities. If you feel there is something to be salvaged, it's suggested that a conversation should be made about this issue.