Baron Noem, husband of former Secretary Kristi Noem and former Secretary of the US, has been questioned about his gender after reports surfaced that he engaged in his "bimbofication" fetish. These fetishes, which can provide outlets for some trans people to identify themselves and explore their gender identity, are not one and the same as being trans. However, these fetishes can be used as outlets to help some trans individuals identify themselves, but not all people participating in forced feminization or sissification are trans. All three fetishes exist within overlapping fetish communities centered on feminization and gender play. The author suggests that conflating these role-play kinks into transgender identity can be dangerous and inaccurate. However it is essential to distinguish these roleplay kink from trans identity, as confloring them can be harmful to trans women in particular.