A woman and her husband, who are in their late 70s and early 80s, who host luncheons for their extended family twice a year, are frustrated that they never receive an invitation from their own family. They believe that since they host all of their friends and family members, it should be common courtesy to invite them. This frustration is exacerbated by social media coverage, making it feel like everyone is hanging out without us. The best way to address this issue is to reach out to your extended family members and express your desire for an invitation.