The author argues that the acceptance of wrinkles and silver hair as we age can be found in a positive light, despite some resistance. She argues that anti-aging products sell an unhealthy narrative in the beauty industry, and founder of skincare company Acaderma, Shuting Hu, advocates for a "pro-aging" approach that supports older adults rather than fighting against an unrealistic standard. The author also notes that while gray hair may be a sign of "beauty" in men as they age, women tend to be more ambivalent about it. Despite this, research shows that self-acceptance and acceptance of visible signs of aging can shift how we see ourselves as biological outcomes rather than hidden defects.