Harry Margolis, author of Get Your Ducks in a Row, has suggested that holding a regular family meeting can make a significant difference in financial, aging and estate planning discussions within families. These discussions are becoming more frequent, with more households recognizing the need for ongoing discussions about finances, health, and end-of-life planning. The goal of regular meetings is to create transparency and communication, and to address issues early and regularly. A specific date can help, tied to a holiday, an anniversary or another regular gathering, and a structured agenda also helps. However, a mediator may not be necessary in situations where relationships are strained.