Stephen LaConte, the author of the advice column, has opened three letters from three undergrads dealing with campus crises. The letters include a letter from a college club leader who cut off contact with her friend, Oakleigh, who had been blaming her for her problems in the club all year. However, she owes him $70 as part of the club, which members often buy things themselves before receiving reimbursed. LaConTe suggests two options: Responding to her request for space with no talk, or letting the money go. Advising your friend's boundaries once she receives the money suggests avoiding violating her financial boundaries until she receives it. If you suspect she's been reimbursed and withholding your money, consider contacting your club's leadership in an effort to make sure she makes the right move.