The trauma of a past relationship with his ex-girlfriend, "Roy," has left him traumatized and he has withdrawn from making love with his girlfriend and won't introduce her to his mother. Despite accusing him of cheating, he denies it. He claims he is still in love with her and has never treated her badly, but barely kisses her and used to be affectionate. He needs to discuss his past with someone who can guide him on a path forward. If your husband dies, the person who will be in charge of the arrangements for his funeral, memorial, cremation or burial will be you.