Dear Abby: Our adult kids, who are struggling to find their way, blame their father and me
By Abigail Van Buren
Published on April 3, 2026.
A woman over 60, married with two young adult children, who are struggling to find their way and often blame their parents and siblings for their problems. She feels that they don't seem to know how to build their lives or want advice from them. She is unsure how to help them and feels that she may have let them down in the past. Suggestions for help include listening to them during their breakdowns and letting them vent. The world has changed significantly since the time of the previous generation, with expectations that the expectations they were raised are not the realities they face in today's social and economic environment.
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