A former boyfriend, "Ray," is an alcoholic and won't stop from contacting his ex-girlfriend. He has been through rehab twice and insists that we'll work out. Despite this, no one else is willing to help him, including his family. Block Ray's number and change the locks if he has a key to your home. If Ray continues to contact, report him to the authorities and get a restraining order. Your sister's sister, "Fiora," lives several states away and wants a party for her 80th birthday, which she insists should be held in an expensive resort area near where any of her siblings live. She should not be demanding that her siblings foot the bill for a lavish celebration she can't afford.