A reader writes to Eric Kohn about a situation where his friend, who has become increasingly obnoxious with late-night drinking, is no longer invited to a reunion. Kohn has been excluded from the group for over 30 years and is uncomfortable with this decision. He has been informed by his friends and family about his behavior, which he dismisses. Kohan suggests telling him that he will no longer be invited and asking him to seek help. Koon also suggests that if you feel uncomfortable with these situations, tag someone else in the conversation. Kookmann also suggests using this discussion to support your efforts towards a healthier relationship with loved ones.