A friend of over 30 years, Eric, has a friend of more than 30 years who has two teenage sons, one of whom is often rude and incommunicative. This behavior has been observed by his friend and his family, but they have always been kind and supportive towards each other. The question is whether this behavior can be attributed to the behavior of the other son, who often ignores them. If you want a better relationship with him, start by talking to his mother about his behavior and how you might better reach him. However, if you just want him to behave better out of deference to you, consider letting him parent in the way she sees fit. A eulogy is typically written from the perspective of the speaker, giving a unique view of the deceased's life and traits, and it's a gift to other people who have come to mourn.