The article discusses seven low-effort psychological tricks that make sex feel better without turning it into a seminar or a "journey." The list includes a list of simple psychological moves that enhance the quality of sex. These include putting your mouth to work before anything else and asking for specific requests that can reveal a person's personality. The Sex Therapist Society of North America recommends sensate focus, a sex therapy practice that moves attention away from "doing it right" and back onto sensation and communication, and taking a new approach to reduce performance anxiety and overanalyze during sex. The author also suggests that if you want instant closeness, skip polite chatter and ask something that reveals a person. These techniques can also help prevent post-sex emotional wobble and make it less stressful.