Miss Manners: My relative expects me to plan around toddler birthdays
By Judith Martin
Published on March 16, 2026.
A relative has asked her for her availability four to six months in advance for their children's birthdays. This has led to a resentment and confusion. Despite this, save-the-date cards do not require an answer, nor do they require a commitment. The future of these requests is uncertain.
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