The host, the host, often responds to questions about the cost of the meal and a generous gratuity when guests inquire about their share of the bill. This raises an awkward moment for the younger guests, who often ask, "How much is my share?" which makes it difficult for the host to answer. The host's wife, a "party eraser" who clears the dishes after the party, then begins washing them. Suggestions for this include suggesting that cleaning up should occur before the party begins, but this could be a solution to avoid crowding the kitchen and breaking china. The author warns that if you wish to resurrect the friendship with an old friend, ask before getting deceived again.