The article discusses the history of divorce and international adoption in an attempt to improve the user's experience using AI to generate key points from this article, which may not always match what’s in the article. The author recalls her decision to adopt a baby from China as a declaration that her ex-husband, who initially thought it was an ideal match for her. The process involves background checks, fingerprinting, financial disclosures, financial clearances, home studies, interviews, and an international adoption process that requires patience, resilience, and a shared sense of purpose. Despite their marriage ending many years ago, the author's commitment to international adoption continues to define their lives. Their daughters are now young adults and their father, who is battling cancer.