A woman who lives with her retired husband, "Al," and their son and daughter-in-law, fears she may die before him, fearing they will make everyone mad if she doesn't. Her husband, Al, is the dominant figure in their marriage and everyone else seeks his advice, approval and advice. However, she feels inadequate as he is the primary figure who receives most attention. This is not self-pity, but a matter of concern that women usually outlive their husbands. She should talk to her husband and son about this issue. She is neither worthless nor a nonentity nor unaware of her own value.