A Catholic woman in her early 30s has fallen deeply in love with a Jewish man, who is also Jewish, and has been together for over a year. The couple's discussions about marriage, holidays and children have led to questions such as whether they would be married in a church, under a chuppah or both, would their children be baptized, raised Jewish, or both? Both families have strong feelings and long traditions. Both their families are loving but opinionated. The author expresses concern that if they do not address these issues now, the issue will grow. The goal is not for one of these couples to "win" religion, but to build a home where both faiths are treated with dignity.