An active widower who grew up in the Midwest with his wife of 60 years, who passed away due to illness, is under pressure from his children to move back to the warmer climate state where they live. Despite their support, they have suggested that he should return to the Midwest to be closer to them in his remaining years. Despite being 79, in good health and managing well at 79, you have every right to choose where and how you live, as long as you are safe and capable, living a life that still feels like home is worth holding onto. The author suggests setting limits on discussions about these issues, but acknowledge that it's OK to live a life where you live.