Miss Manners has been asked about the etiquette of the wedding dress code for women attending a wedding of her husband's nephew and bride-to-be, who are divorced and remarried. The dress code at the wedding venue is described as "black tie optional" and "elegant, coastal chic". However, Miss Manners suggests that men should wear jackets. She also criticizes the wedding invitation's names being written as "Paul and Paulette Last Name" instead of "Mr. and Mrs. Paul Last Name". The father of the groom's name was written as “Bill Last Name” rather than the more formal and elegant “William.”