My brother and sister-in-law invited my family of four for a dinner of corned beef and cabbage to celebrate St. Patrick's Day, but my aunt, who does not like corned Beef and cabbage, expressed disappointment when her family decided to bring pizza for her. The dinner was cancelled by the hostess, who is Irish and a tradition she wanted to share with everyone. The suggestion of Miss Manners suggests that those who dislike the corneded beef could eat a minimal portion of it, while those who don't like it can be praised with loud praise.