A man was diagnosed with advanced cancer several years ago and invited his lifelong best friend, who refused to celebrate with him due to her responsibilities as a mom. The response from this woman, who has two older children and a capable husband, indicates she is overwhelmed by her responsibilities and doesn't work. The author suggests that the friendship may have been misinterpreted, and suggests a conversation to clarify this. If you feel there is something to be salvaged, it may be suggested that the parties involved may have miscommunicated.