My 32-year-old son, who has an alcohol problem, refuses to believe he is an alcoholic and refuses to attend family events or join them for holidays. His wife and brother, who have been social drinkers, have been ignoring his problem and continue to drink. This has led to a rift between them, but I am unsure about the future of my will, leaving everything to my two children 50-50. I have a will that includes a 50-60% split between them. I've tried Al-Anon for advice but found it insufficient. An attorney specializing in wills and trusts can help in this dilemma.