Two longstanding relationships, once described as close and fulfilling, have ended for no apparent reason. One of these instances occurred when a friend who had been close for many years suddenly stopped responding to communication after several years. The second time, when they reconnected, they seem disinterested in seeing each other. The author suggests that if you have a desire to fix these issues, asking for clarification, it makes sense. It's not too late for the parties to discuss these issues.