A reader expresses her frustration at a family friend who has been a friend with whom she has been with for over 20 years, but she seems materialistic and often brag about her children's successes. This behavior has caused her to question her friend's commitment to materialism and her success. However, she suggests that her friend is proud of her family and may not be malicious, but this could be her way of sharing the important things she considers important in her life. Suggesting that as a friend, you can convey your desire to talk about other topics rather than passing judgement on her, this can deepen your friendship while avoiding further distasteful behavior. Finally, the author suggests that the proper protocol for baby gifting is to be used at parties, parties, and a homecoming party.