A reader, Eric, has written to a concerned reader about a misunderstanding between him and his husband and cousin, who are cousins. The pair had planned a trip together for their 60th anniversary 10 years ago and had a great time. However, when Eric suggested a trip to Portugal, the cousins decided not to go, and instead booked a trip for Portugal. The couple were left heartbroken and angry, but have not heard from each other since the trip. The writer suggests that if they had intended to plan around you, they could have done nothing to repair the damage. Eric suggests reaching out to have dinner with the cousins and asking for an apology or an explanation.